Where To Get Married

So, I'm trying to be a good fiance and blog so here I go. I never was really sure about what I wanted for my wedding except for a few details. Having an outdoor wedding in a very natural and beautiful environment is one of those things. I also would like a smaller therefore less stressful wedding. Well it seems that having a small wedding is out of the question with both Him and my mother against me (two against one wins I guess). So I have been in search of the other thing (the place I want to get married) and I think I may have found the jackpot (cross your fingers). I'm pretty excited because I recently think I might have found the place I'm going to get married. It's the beach wedding I want but at a place that will please everybody I think. It's handicap accessible for my side of the family and well their food isn't as over priced as other places which means Him should be able to order more of it. It is an hour drive from me though, which is a negative for my mom. However, the way I see it is, if I can't have my 40 person beach wedding well at least I can have the beach part. Right now my plan is to be super excited about this place so if it does end up being as good as it seems on line my fiance and mother will have to feel really really guilty about saying no 'cause it will make me sad. Now I just have to hope Him doesn't read this before we go on the 30th or it will ruin my big plan.
If all goes well I'll come back and post some links to pictures or something, plus it will give me another reason to blog.